Hi guys!!
Sis Suzzie your post really caught my eyes.. and when i saw how you felt sad abt the sbs drama awards fiasco i felt even more sad..many of us shippers get a bad taste in mouth when the sbs awards is brought up because everyone witnessed hacci`s pain. It was one of the rarest moment when she was so transparent that everyone knew what was going on in her mind just by looking at her face...a sad occurence indeed
But do you know what i dont feel dejected because of that incident..infact i feel happy regarding sbs awards..well its strange..but the reason i was happy was cos i FELT that it was a turning point in keunshin relationship..
What i am about to post is my feelings and thoughts on What might have occured.. It may not be entirely true and it may vary from person to person..Here it goes!!
why do i think its a turning point?? Lets consider Shin hye first. Hacci is relatively an innocent person in terms of relationship compared to suk..She started acting in Yab but suddenly she was showered completely the attentions of a young and handsome guy..She was infact overwhelmed but praise to hacci she tried to resist the charm (first yab press conference) but it was a failing battle against the determination of Sukkie.. She failed and She started to fall deeply for him [they were quite close before Yab too cos of etude house Cfs but its my belief that though it was mindless flirting b4 it seriously blossomed into love during Yab] Then yab came to a close and then came the dilemma... Shin hye was faced with the confusion..Did SHIN HYE fall for KEUN SUK or was it MI NAM falling for TAE KYUNG?? poor Hacci..She was really inexperienced when she came to this.. And on top of that She has never given her everything for the role as she had done for MI NAM/NYU.. so it was hard for her to take leave of her Char..She got sick too..
Coming to the prince..A veteran in dating lol
He liked what he saw with shin hye..started teasing her..POOR GUY!! he really dint know what he was getting into..he was falling in love with her..Who wouldnt?
He stole many kisses from her and was so naughty at times..but the most revealing factor was the JEALOUSY.. I think suk must have been insecure abt his relationship with hacci as it was the beginning stage and the green monster attacked at the slightest provocation of Yong hwa..Why should Suk a person with nearly a "Narcissistic" temperament be jealous over a guy paying extra attention to his girl..wasnt he confident of his skills as an expert in love
We should cut the boy some slack..All his prev relationships were just Dating/puppy love..This was the first time he had to face the real deal --> true love..
Coming to the end of Yab he was in a lot of doubt..having always loved older women why was he attracted to hacci?? was it a passing fancy or just lust
he had no answer for the questions..
Hacci`s problem with coming out of char served as a lifesaver for him..he took this chance and literally ran away from Hacci---> this is the main reason why many PSH fans dont like what he did and are against Keunshin pairing..But i think this was a wise decision by Suk.. he gave some breathing space for Shin hye after months of completely smothering her with his attentions.. at the same time he took some time to think whether what he felt for Shin hye was LOVE..
But looking at it from shin hye`s point it was sad for one to be struggling with a char which she couldnt get out of,falling sick and being abandoned by the guy who had been acting for months as if the world revolved around her..she was very young and she couldnt sort her feelings..But what Shin hye wont have known (if she had known she wont have appeared hurt in sbs awards) is that the guy who actually ABANDONED
her was keeping tabs on her through her manager.. He knew everything abt her..what she was going through..
but yet decided to stay away rather than be near to comfort her..
here i would like to quote suk
"If I fall in love, I’ll fall so deep that I won’t ever give up until my heart is broken into pieces"It is not easy for Jang keun suk to fall in love --> as seen with hacci.. he was happy to tease her but when it came to love he hesitated.. he kept a distance but failed in completely isolating himself..So was satisfied with just getting news of her..
When did suk fall in so deep for her that he was willing to have his heart broken to pieces.. the answer is when he met her *it was destiny lol*..but when did he realize that he has fallen for her?
My belief is that it happened after the period of separation during SBS DRAMA AWARDS
During the awards they had to meet during rehearsals and during the show.. they were awkward with each other and hacci dint know what to do..She kept glancing at him and was so heartbroken..Suk tried to act like the cold jerk
and acted as if he couldnt see the looks of longing.. poor suk photos were captured when he glanced at hacci..and then the awards giving time..he purposefully avoided giving the award to hacci..pls note that all these were not MEANT TO HURT SHIN HYE..it was meant as A TEST WHICH SUKKIE SET HIMSELF inorder to find if he really loved her..according to the test if suk could resist Hacci`s charms after a long lapse it meant that his feelings were not sincere.. He decided to test himself and so if the feelings were not true he would have left hacci as she was better off without him..but that was not to be so..
He HAD to glance at her..He went to have an interview at the table wer anjell`s wer sitting..her expressions when he came speaks million words
The commenter had to practically drag suk away from them inorder to continue the MC..
And then Suk got his award..And anjells minus Shin hye went to congratulate him on stage.. Am sure suk felt rotten cos of that absence.. He got a real taste of his medicine..being avoided..and thats when he passed the test he set himself --> HE REALIZED HE LOVES SHIN HYE and HE DOESNT WANT TO STAY AWAY FROM HER ANYMORE..
He wanted her to be there in every part of his life.. And so after the show He went to her and HUGGED HER
The separation got over at that and all especially Hongki (look at his face) were happy that suk finally let himself go and embraced love.. Sure it was a bad part of their relationship but hey every relationship has one..and Suk went into it deeply after this incident..
And this is why i dont look at SBS awards with sadness sis Suzzie.. it was the first step into their relation that they had!!
now came the next hurdle
questions: If sukkie loves Shin hye shouldnt he tell it out loud?
Why does he always deny his relation with PSH?The answer is there in this article
[Opinion] Anti Fans and Their Power in the Music Industry
I remember that one of the things that caught my curiosity while falling into the arms of K-Pop was the idols and their anti-fans. I started reading story after story and when I read about DBSK's Yunho and the incident of the juice with glue in it, I asked to myself: "Why do these people have so much power over the artists they hate?" It is something that up to this day I don't understand clearly.
First, these people waste time hating K-Pop groups without even having a reasonable argument for that. Secondly, they elaborate plans, websites, manipulate pictures and even gather in groups secretly, to attack the person they hate when their anger towards said artist grows even more. I have seen plenty of websites and even groups on Facebook or Twitter, recalling "Anti SNSD", "Anti 2NE1", "Anti Kim Hyun Joong" and even "Anti DBSK".
Why does this happen? Why so much anger towards a group or person? Just because a group does really well in the industry, it doesn't mean that you have to hate it and become part of some sort of evil sect to attempt or to even destroy the group you hate. Sometimes, fans themselves create these evil monsters. I have read comments in which people get actually sick of X or Y artist just because of their fandom.
These little antis, can be divided in three categories. The first category is the "regular anti." These anti-fans just comment or say they don't like certain groups and that's all. Their intention is to actually hurt the group's fandom and not to hurt the artist itself. The second category is the "stalker or sasaeng anti-fan." Here, some fans of a group are actually sasaengs without even hating the group, but why are they considered antis?Because they stalk their artist and cross the limits of a person's privacy.
There have been cases in which stalkers follow an artist every single day. They spend too much time following them around, getting information of their schedule, and also there have been cases in which they trespass illegally into their dorms, as it happened to JYJ, or writing on their dorm's walls such it happened on BEAST's dorm and Yoseob himself had to clean up the walls, or the case of Super Junior's Yesung who caught a fan writing on their dorm's wall and had to tell her to stop.
Also, this category of stalkers, tend to check out their idol's garbage. Some of them are so extreme that they get their idol's phone number and call them several times at day. This last case happened to DBSK's Yunho and it was so stressful that he had to change his number. When he did, the same fan who was calling him non-stop obtained his new number in just 5 minutes and argued: "Why did you change your number?, that's not good for you" and hung up.
Some of them, post very disgusting pictures declaring their obsessive love towards their idol without even realizing that it actually is a very sick kind of way to declare their love. One of these crazy girls actually wrote a love letter with the blood from her menstruation, and to prove that it was real, she even sent her panties. This happened to 2PM's Taecyeon. Other idols who have received bloody letters are, MBLAQ's Lee Joon, FT Island's Lee Hongki and Big Bang's Taeyang and G-Dragon.
Some others stalkers follow the idol 24/7 and even videotape them. Honestly, the following video made me feel uncomfortable even to watch, in the case of SHINee's Jonghyun. He was feeling really awkward there, surrounded and being videotaped when he clearly asked them to give him some space.
When these kind of fans break the boundaries imposed by the group's manager, it gets until the point in which the manager has to react violently. This last happened when CN BLUE's manager got into a controversy for being accused of violence against a fan. A similar thing also happened to SHINee's manager as he was recorded hitting the back of a fan's head. Some of the group members looked surprised by the violent gesture.
The third category is the dangerous one. These people are so full of nonsensical anger and hate that they actually attempt against the life of the idol they want to destroy. There have been really serious issues of attempting and almost killing an idol. I'm pretty sure that all Cassiopeias remember when Yunho got poisoned with a juice full of a dangerous adhesive glue in it. After he drank it, he started vomiting blood and had a stomach washout done immediately. After the incident, he dropped all the charges against the person who caused that. Even Kim Heechul who was really angry towards the incident, got threats from Yunho's antis so he had to stop tweeting about the issue.
This makes me wonder, why are they so afraid of these people? Why are they so afraid of filing charges against their attackers? Shouldn't they be punished? These anti-fans have gained such a power in the music industry that they can decide or control a person's destiny. Remember the issue of Jay Park who decided to leave 2PM due to his accusations of being anti-Korean despite the fact that he apologized for it and went back to Seattle? Or the case of Tablo and his Standford Issue in which people were demanding the truth from him? Isn't that too much?
They have acquired so much power and control over the artists they hate, that it is almost normal for the idols to have antis. They don't even date and if they do, they date secretly in order to stay safe and away from stalkers and antis. When is this going to stop? Aren't agencies supposed to do something against these people? To suffer harm from an anti-fan is not nice and we surely don't want to see our beloved idols being hurt and suffering as it happened to Yoon Eun Hye when she got shot in her eyes by an anti-fan who was holding a water gun full of soy sauce and vinegar.
The latest case was of Super Junior's Kyuhyun who was threatened while being on vacation in Spain by, what SM Entertainment said, "a male ELF" who had a knife in his hands. Kyuhyun reacted quickly and was able to run.
I honestly think that this anti-fan thing should stop. There's no reason to harm another person or to make them impossible to lead a normal life. They already have too many things and schedules to deal with so I think there's no need of another living terror called "antis."
*Note: The content of this article represents views and policies solely of the writer, and in no way represents the editorial stance of Soompi.com or the whole editorial board.
Credit: Soompi There were many disturbing pics which i felt would spoil the atmosphere so i havent included any..
Now DO YOU UNDERSTAND??
When i read that suk wants to protect Shin hye and he doesnt want her to get hurt i thought it was weird and a bit overexaggerated..but now i unders the real danger..WOW!! i was so shocked with what the antis are capable of doing..I Dont want my suk and Hye to get hurt just to satisfy our curiosity or to spite GGS..let them go about their relatioship at their own speed and let them reveal it in their own time...even if they get married without announcing "which mayb the case" I DONT CARE.. i dont want suk poisoned or stabbed and Hacci mobbed.. I know in my heart that SUK loves HYE forever and that is revelation enough for me..
And this is something that has seriously been troubling me for the past few days --> Suk has been overworking lately..I know in my heart of hearts that he is doing it for hacci and their future..but he is nearly killing himself with the extent of hardwork he is putting.. if u dont like what he is doing or if he acts like he doesnt care abt hacci rembr IT IS ALL ACTING!!and suk is a GOOD ACTOR..having doubt? Check out his awards lol
I was in tears yest night after seeing some of his photos wer he was so sick.. i can just imagine what hacci would be going through..if an eel who has never had any contact with him is suffering so much think of the Girl who loves him..
So pls be considerate next time if anyone wants to bash any of them..this is in responce to the news that there has been bashing going on in weibo!!
Credit of pics to uploaders
Guys this is jus my opinion and nothing is definite..In my mind this is how i imagine Keunshin..I may be wrong..but i will stick to what i think..annyeong
Tue 27 Jan 2015, 7:23 pm by PreethiJose
» Dynamics of A Couple In Love - Brief History of the KeunShin Love Story
Tue 27 Jan 2015, 7:06 pm by PreethiJose
» RUNNING MAN NOVEMBER 2012
Sun 07 Dec 2014, 9:33 pm by Nurzulfa
» YAB BTS Reviews and Spazz
Mon 23 Dec 2013, 8:49 pm by love shin hye
» KeunShin Solidifiers III
Sun 10 Nov 2013, 1:44 am by lycille
» KEUNSHIN'S Version 101 MVs
Sat 09 Nov 2013, 4:13 am by lycille
» Park Shin Hye Mp4/Mp3 Download Links
Thu 07 Nov 2013, 4:19 pm by khulynne29
» 10/07/13 Rice Wreath for The Heirs Press Conference
Tue 22 Oct 2013, 5:56 am by lycille
» MinShin Couple
Fri 18 Oct 2013, 4:48 pm by khulynne29